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Eyes of the Beholder

Posted 5 weeks 3 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Babysitters & Nannies, Culture

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What happens when you have a really creative kid team up with a really fun and creative babysitter? The answer: A big misunderstanding.

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Mommy, What's a God? (and other questions of myth and religion)

Posted 11 weeks 3 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Culture, Relationships

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"So Mommy, How come we don’t go to church?" Are you ready for this question? What do you say? And if that isn’t bad enough the grandparents want to enroll the kids in Sunday school. How do parents deal with their children asking the BIG questions when the parents have lived their lives happy to not have the answers?

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Daddy, Don't Divorce Us,

Posted 15 weeks 2 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Sex & Relationships, No Children Zone, Sex Ed, Relationships

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So you don't love your wife right now. Big deal. You divorce that woman who brought your children into the world and you are in for a heap of guilt and angst that will, rest assured be entirely your fault. Something to think about guys, on your way to dissolving your family unit.

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Just Say No to Volunteering in the Classroom

Posted 18 weeks 4 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Education, Work Balance, Pre School, K-8, Parent-Teacher

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Does your kid's school ask you to volunteer? Why should you have to? Do you do your dishes when you go to a restaurant? DO you read your own X-rays at the hospital? Why are we supposed to be in the classroom?

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The Family Bed: The Secure Sleep

Posted 19 weeks 6 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Home Life, Sex & Relationships, New Parents, Culture, Relationships

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Why do we keep our young children in a room all the way down the hall from us? Why do we spend too much money fixing up Ikea showroom like rooms for them when they really want to be with us? Why do we think it's weird to sleep with our children when most of the world does it? Wake up, America, and go to sleep with your children.

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Thoughts from the Amtrak Train: Bad Behavior

Posted 23 weeks 6 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Discipline, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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I don't think my kids are the model of good behavior but enough people around me do think they are. We've been on a train trip meeting all sorts of people...perhaps they are models. And if they are, here's why...

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How to Celebrate those Christmas Babies

Posted 29 weeks 1 day ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Planning, Shopping, Etiquette, Culture

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Are you having a baby in December? Are you a Christmas Baby? There's many ways we wind up skimping on our Christmas babies that make them feel put out by the holiday. Here's a quick list of things to remind family and friends and we parents to do and not to do with our December offspring.

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Disney's Latest: Tinkerbell

Posted 30 weeks 2 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Entertainment

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Buying into the latest Disney franchise to capture your wallet and the hearts and minds of your daughters?

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Holiday Card Action

Posted 30 weeks 5 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Education, Learning Tools, Home School, Pre School, K-8, High School, Higher Education, Parent-Teacher, Extra Curricular

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Stuck without a way to make your children think of something besides their lists for Santa? Join my family as we participate in Amnesty International's Holiday Card Action.

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Guilt Tripping

Posted 32 weeks 3 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Time Management, Work Balance

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I’ve been a little absent from Parenting Squad because a little career boost sent me away from my usual routine. My unpublished short story collection won a very cool award. Yay! I had to leave the family behind a few days. There is nothing that more physically addresses a mom trying to have a career than a few days apart from the children.

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When Hatred Infiltrates

Posted 36 weeks 5 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Culture

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With this year's national election, California's Yes on Prop 8 campaign, and the nationwide obsession with scapegoating immigrants for economic woes--hatred and fear is infiltrating all manner of American life. Bigotry is finding itself a home in our national discourse and the playground in the school yard next door is no different. How do we tackle the hatred when it gets directed at our families? What do we tell the children?

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Kid Kleen's Bath Blizzard

Posted 37 weeks 2 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Shopping

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Looking for a way to add to bath time fun? Depending on your time and ingenuity, Bath Blizzard may or may not be the next fun bath product for you and your kids.

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Trick or Treat for UNICEF

Posted 38 weeks 16 hours ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Extra Curricular

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Want your kids to do something meaningful this Halloween besides start on a a new cavity? Consider reconnecting with an old American tradition: Trick or Treat for UNICEF.

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Halloween Costumes--Making it or Buying it? That is the question.

Posted 38 weeks 5 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Shopping

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The first week of October has come and gone. Are you any closer to getting your little ones' Halloween costumes completed? Are they starting to weigh in on homemade vs. bought? Which one really is the better option for busy parents?

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Raising Children Across Class Lines

Posted 39 weeks 6 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Social Skills, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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I know it's taboo in America to bring up various differences of social class but when junior says: Mom, can we invite Johnny over? Do you say yes right away or do you redirect and say, what about playing with Timmy instead?

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Different Kids, Different Schools?

Posted 48 weeks 1 day ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Pre School, K-8

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We didn't think twice about sending our son to a small private preschool and kindergarten. The public one was really rough and tumble and he seemed lost in the shuffle when he started there. So with lesson learned, how come we are sending our daughter who starts preschool this fall to the public one?

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Summer Roadtrip Travel Adventures, Part 1

Posted 49 weeks 11 hours ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture

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This summer was my first venture into traveling alone with the children since the husband had to work. (Hats off to all the single moms out there who do this on a regular basis). I found that keeping a zen like calm goes a long way into making the unexpected and the disaster a little more adventure like and way more fun for the kiddies.

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Same Sex, Same Cake

Posted 51 weeks 2 days ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Culture, Relationships

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The time had come to break it to the kids that the grandmas are getting married at the end of July. I was bracing for very literal preschooler observations of only boys and girls can marry---not unlike my preschoolers observations about who can tuck her in and who can play with Barbie...her response was not expected...

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Old MacDonald had some Suckers

Posted 1 year 1 week ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Culture

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As a mostly vegetarian, hippie genX-er--a non-TV watching, non-consumer driven parent-- I have purposely failed my children miserably by hiding from them vital cultural icons of American life. But all that is about to change with two Happy Meals...

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Kid Friendly Trips with TripFlix

Posted 1 year 1 week ago by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Entertainment

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Gas prices have you and the kids home for the summer? You might want to give the interactive DVD TripFlix a try and do some couch traveling in an air conditioned living room with teens Alex and Emily to 25 destinations across the USA.

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