Controlling Kid Clutter
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You'll be surprised at what your kids can willingly part with...
Submitted by Jennifer C on January 9, 2008 - 21:55.
I am a middle-aged mom...okay, I'm planning to live to be 100. But, that said, I grew up in a time when "because I SAID so!" was the final port in the maternal storm. When Mom said that, we listened. The next step, we knew, was acknowledging that ultimately, she really did control our tiny little universes. Fast forward 125 years to the present day. No one gets away with the BISS gambit. So, when it came time to weed out our five-year-old's toys (we actually should have started this process about 4 years ago but we've got the dread multiple problem of procrastination AND clutter-clutching), we went to him. Was there anything in his vast collection of trucks, trains, models, blocks, snappy bits and things that go crunch in the night that he might consider taking to the local toy bartering store for a replacement? Might he consider store credit? Might he be willing to donate some to a worthy young boy or girl who just didn't have the same indulgent parents and grandparents? After all was said and done, we had THREE gigantic hefty bags of toys to donate and a select group of barely-used toys to be bartered for different ones. Then he and his parental unit went to the charity of our choice and donated the bags, with him solemnly handing a bag over to the attendant. We were so proud of him and he did this without being coaxed, begged or bribed. We spent hours admiring his newly de-cluttered living space, commenting on his excellent organization skills. The entire operation went without a hitch and I was impressed by his maturity. I am amazed at what kids will do when they are incorporated into the process instead of given an edict. Now if I could just get beloved spouse to part with the championship trophy from the '82 softball championships...wonder if we could trade that in somewhere?
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