Conflict Resolution

Childless House Guests in the Kid Zone

Posted February 12, 2010 - 07:45 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Home Life, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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It can make or break a friendship if you can’t communicate about all the mishaps waiting in the wings when a childless friend comes to call. So here it goes — my list of things to tell your buddy before you start freaking out and they start thinking you are from another planet.

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Lessons in Parenting: Teenagers Actually Do Listen To Us

Posted February 10, 2010 - 12:24 by Fred Lee

Safety, Chores, Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Relationships

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It may not seem like it, but teenagers are not only listening to their parents, but they even appreciate and value their presence.

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Disciplining Other People’s Kids

Posted January 27, 2010 - 12:36 by Rhonda Franz

Discipline, Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Pre School, K-8, High School

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Regardless of the type of social activity, parents have to deal with one another’s children. And like our own, kids will sometimes misbehave. What do you do when children misbehave in your presence?

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Allow Me to Scare the Snot Out of Your Toddler

Posted November 26, 2009 - 00:20 by Lela Davidson

Home Life, Discipline, Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Culture

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Yelling is not the ideal form of communication. However, science now shows us that toddlers with a lower than average "fear response" may be genetically doomed to a life of crime. Could yelling help? If so, I'm available.

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The Slaughter of Innocence

Posted November 19, 2009 - 09:27 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Sex Ed, Relationships

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I keep hearing the stories of children being killed by their parents, their mother’s boyfriends, the next door neighbor. It feels so common place that we should hear of deaths under the age of 10 that I almost feel like I’m being stupid for raising the question -- but I’ll ask it anyway. Why does it seem like we are killing our children?

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Oh NO! Not MY Kid

Posted September 12, 2009 - 08:49 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Safety, Discipline, Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Culture

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The playgrounds only ever have two children: the bully and the victim. Which one is your kid and how do you handle it?

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The Art of War: How Arguing in Front of Your Kids Can Benefit Them

Posted August 11, 2009 - 08:32 by Sonja Stewart

Etiquette, Sex & Relationships, Conflict Resolution, Relationships, Wellness

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Before you take that disagreement with your spouse to the bedroom, think about how your children may learn of it. It's a fine line, but if you can play by the rules, your kids will benefit from your “heated discussion,” and pick up some valuable tools.

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Parenting Lessons: What I learned from Redneck Softball

Posted July 23, 2009 - 18:36 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Social Skills, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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I have been collecting information, advice, and observations about different cultural styles in parenting. This is the result of half a summer’s work. Lesson number one? Embracing Redneck Softball and all it has to offer is making me a better parent--teaching me to love without hovering.

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Coping With Group Projects

Posted April 24, 2009 - 07:21 by Julie Rains

Education, Conflict Resolution, K-8

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Teachers seem to assign group projects on a routine basis now vs. hardly ever when I was a student. But not everyone likes group work. I particularly enjoy the observation of Scout Finch in To Kill A Mockingbird that “miles of construction paper and wax crayon were expended by the State of Alabama in its well-meaning but fruitless efforts to teach me Group Dynamics.” Here are ideas on coping with group activities.

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Has The Time Come For Me To Beat My Kids?

Posted March 27, 2009 - 13:54 by Paul Michael

Home Life, Social Skills, Entertainment, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Extra Curricular

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I've always been easy on my two little girls, but recently it occurred to me that I've been a little too easy on them. I play the part of the good cop, my wife teaching them more about life than I do. And I finally came to realize the other day that I may just have to start beating them. I'm talking, of course, about competitive games.

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Thoughts from the Amtrak Train: Bad Behavior

Posted January 17, 2009 - 14:09 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Discipline, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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I don't think my kids are the model of good behavior but enough people around me do think they are. We've been on a train trip meeting all sorts of people...perhaps they are models. And if they are, here's why...

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Breaking the Bottle Habit (One Screech at a Time)

Posted November 28, 2008 - 20:25 by Linsey Knerl

Home Life, Discipline, Conflict Resolution, Nutrition

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My son will be two years old in January, and he is plenty old enough to be broken from his bottle habit. I picked a day (like any other) and just decided to do it. Here's what I learned, and why I'm glad it's over.

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Hey Moms! Go with Your Gut!

Posted November 17, 2008 - 06:50 by Linsey Knerl

Health, Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Healthcare, Diseases & Disorders

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Awhile back I told you how I was almost always the Mom in the middle. Not sure if I’m overreacting to most things, but more than likely certain that I’m too laid back for my own good. A trip to the ER this weekend gave me confidence in my decision–making abilities as a mother. (And reaffirmed that you really don’t want to mess with me when the kiddos are involved.)

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Raising Children Across Class Lines

Posted September 27, 2008 - 18:53 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Social Skills, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Relationships

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I know it's taboo in America to bring up various differences of social class but when junior says: Mom, can we invite Johnny over? Do you say yes right away or do you redirect and say, what about playing with Timmy instead?

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Summer Roadtrip Travel Adventures, Part 1

Posted July 25, 2008 - 15:35 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture

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This summer was my first venture into traveling alone with the children since the husband had to work. (Hats off to all the single moms out there who do this on a regular basis). I found that keeping a zen like calm goes a long way into making the unexpected and the disaster a little more adventure like and way more fun for the kiddies.

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Yet Another Project For The Pregnant Woman: How To Write Your Child A Song

Posted June 19, 2008 - 13:39 by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer

Pregnancy, Birth, Conflict Resolution

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Ah, late pregnancy, a time for preparing crib sheets and stocking up on diaper wipes, doing kegels and finalizing names. And for me, also a time to go out and find my child a song. Here are ideas for how to create a personal lyric for your unborn (or already born, for that matter), and some reasons why it might be nice for them. Bonus: It’s nice for you, too.

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Which Kind of Little League Parent are YOU?

Posted June 18, 2008 - 22:53 by Margaret Garcia-Couoh

Social Skills, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture

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School is winding down and so is Little League season (June is national Little League month). You are almost finished carting junior around from school yard to baseball diamond to pizza parlor to game again. So it begs the question. Which kind of Little League parent are YOU?

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Please Stop Giving Advice.

Posted June 18, 2008 - 18:59 by Corina Fiore

Safety, Home Life, Discipline, Education, Pregnancy, Social Skills, Birth, No Children Zone, New Parents, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Culture, Work Balance, Relationships

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The picture represents how I feel about unsolicited or absolute advice: angry and annoyed. I often ignore advice, shake my head in agreement, and move on my way. I wasn't always that way, and I was reminded of the havoc unsolicited advice can reap on a family when reading a message board this week.

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It’s Difficult to Give Our Families the Best

Posted June 14, 2008 - 14:44 by Linsey Knerl

Social Skills, Conflict Resolution, Relationships

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My kids deserve the best. I want to give them everything they need and some of the things that they want, and I wish for it to come to them with relative ease and with as little heartbreak as possible. Why is it that I find it so trying to give them the best of me?

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American Idol – Family Friendly or Adult TV?

Posted May 22, 2008 - 20:50 by Lori Kerrigan

Entertainment, Etiquette, Conflict Resolution, Sex Ed

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American Idol is a favorite in households across the world, but is it really appropriate for young minds?

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